She continued to attend church meetings, but was not ready
to study seriously with the missionaries and prepare for baptism into the
church. We e-mailed her about
attending some of the October sessions
of General Conference at the Ecully chapel.
She replied by thanking us for the invitation but said that she could
not come. In November, we wanted to be
sure that she knew about the special meeting in Lyon when Elder Andersen was to
speak. A few days before the meeting, we get on the same subway car where she was
sitting while returning home from her work at Dominos Pizza. I sat down right next to her without
recognizing she was there. Sister
Jeppson sat across from us and recognized her and said Hello. We had the opportunity (that was not just a
coincidence) to invite her to the meeting.
She had a conflict but knew that we cared.
During December, two Chinese speaking Elders were
transferred to the Villeurbanne District, Elder and Stanford and
Haiparai-Hansen. They befriended Yan
encouraged her to receive the missionary lessons. She
was still not ready. During February and
March, they met with her several times so that she could help them improve
their Chinese. They would then share a
spiritual thought with her from the scriptures.
I attended a few of those sessions.
You may remember that I sent a scan of my name in Chinese that she had
written. She was still not ready to move
forward. During all of this time, she
continued to attend church meetings on Sunday almost as regularly as most
members.
Then the miracle happened.
It is May 1st, the May Day holiday in France. I am at the office around 9:00 a.m. I receive a phone call on my cell phone. It is Yan.
She tells me that she has decided that she wants to be baptized and
wonders what happens next. She explains
on Wednesday during our conversation that each time she tries to stop coming to
church she feels sad and then returns.
This has happened three times.
This time she has decided that she doesn’t want to continue to feel this
sadness. She wants to do whatever is
necessary to be baptized and become a member.
She has resisted in the past because she has been worried about what the future will be like when she returns to China, and what happens to her teaching career because
being a member of the church could diminish her chance for advancement in the
Chinese educational system. She had also
been concerned about what her friends and family think. I talk to her about her great faith to want
to follow the path to baptism, despite the obstacles. We talk about the path which includes being
taught by the missionaries, praying, and reading the scriptures. I tell her how happy I am for her and that I
have been praying for her for a long time. She tells me that maybe that is why she called me first to tell someone
about her decision. She is truly an
example of someone that has experienced a mighty change of heart.
I ask her if I could call the missionaries (Elder Stanford
has been transferred, so the missionaries are now Elder Gandolf and Hapairai-Hansen)
and make arrangements for them to teach her.
She says yes. They drop by the
office a few hours later. I reveal the
news. They are very excited and give her
a call on the phone and set up the first meeting for the next day, Thursday
evening. They ask Sister Jeppson and I
to meet with them. We talk with her
about her desires and what has led her to this point. She shares similar thoughts as those she
discussed with me on the phone. She
believes that what she thought were coincidences now appear more like God is at
her side guiding her. She has a strong
desire to really believe strongly that her feelings are true. We share our testimonies and encouragement
with emphasis on faith and the Holy Ghost.
We discuss with her a baptism date to prepare for and she agrees to May
12th.
We meet with her again on Friday. The missionaries discuss the baptism
questions to get an idea of her progress in learning and on what subjects they
should focus their teaching. She expresses
herself very sincerely and honestly. She
is already living the main parts of all of the commandments and expresses
willingness to follow them in the future.
She tells us that she has called her parents about her decision. Her mother is okay and supportive of her
decision. Her father is less supportive
but acknowledges that she can be trusted to make good decisions. We discuss the principle of faith and how the
Holy Ghost can guide us. Sister Jeppson
emphasizes our understanding of our personal relationship with Heavenly
Father. We discuss the importance of
prayer.
On Saturday, Yan attends the baptism service of Fabien from
the Congo who has been attending the Ecully Ward. This gives her a better understanding of what
will happen during her baptismal service.
The next day she attends church.
A couple from Orem, Utah are attending that Sunday. His brother taught Frère Cara, one of our
ward members, the gospel. Some years
later, his wife taught Sister Cara the gospel.
They both bear their testimonies.
The brother from Orem meets Yan at the beginning of Sunday School. He indicates that he served a mission in Hong
Kong. They begin talking in Chinese. He attends the gospel principles class. Arrangements are made for him to meet with
her and the missionaries during their teaching appointment that they had arranged
after church. This is the Lord’s hand in
Yan’s life and not a coincidence.
I meet with her and the missionaries on Monday evening. We discuss the Principles of the Gospel
lesson. I share my understanding of
Repentance and talk more about the Holy Ghost.
The missionaries talk to her about plans for the baptism program. She asks me to give the talk about the Holy
Ghost at the baptism service on Sunday and to confirm her a member of the
church in sacrament meeting the following Sunday. She gives a very spiritual closing prayer. They continue to teach her almost every day
during the rest of the week. She is
interviewed by the district leader on Friday.
On Sunday, May 18th I have the opportunity to
confirm Yan a member of the church and bestow the Gift of the Holy Ghost. This time I speak in French and feel the
inspiration and guidance of the spirit.
Please remember Yan in your prayers.
She is very special. We hope that
she can come and visit us in the United States so that you can meet her. We are grateful to be in instrument in the
Lord’s hands to help Yan on her journey to joining the church and receive the
many blessings that await her.
NOS PETITS-ENFANTS
Megan, Zack, Bradley, Caleb, Lauren, Riley, Hunter, Abby and
Natalie, remember that special day you were baptized. Do you remember how good it felt to get the
Gift, from Heavenly Father, of the Holy Ghost?
Never forget that feeling. You
will be blessed all of your life if you choose the right path and are worthy of
His companionship. To the rest of our
wonderful grandchildren, continue to prepare for that special time to
come. Heavenly Father and Grandma and
Grandpa love you very much.















